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Welcome lads and lassies. Your comments and opinions does not matter because this is the way I see politics and its mechanisms. There are articles dated before I started this blog incorporated into my blog. There will also be usage of Bible scriptures along with my political perspective, which I coined as "poligion". To me, a very flawed individual, at the end of the day all that matters is that we live in the positive and caused no harm, in any form or fashion, on a fellow human being.
Enough is enough already. With
If
For far too long, administrations and the policies have catered to the whims of
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The countries of interest for this article are
Writer Barbara Tuchman, said, “war is the unfolding of miscalculations” and due to the many Laurel & Hardy type bumbles our policies have created, this is our fate, another fine mess.
Although I love addressing political issues, I occasionally love to write about societal issues and have strayed from it for a while but after the article addressing the political observance of womanhood, I thought about looking at the same issue from another point of view, so here I go.
Do you know why we love getting presents? Because we’re excited about what we’re getting and of course, sometimes we’re disappointed. The same cannot be said about how some females, girls, women of all shapes, sizes and races are dressing or not. Allowing the world to glimpse your goodies doesn’t make one sexy; in fact, it makes some look like unkempt prostitutes, trashy. Unfortunately, it’s become the norm.
Being sexy means loving who you are as a woman and your clothes are well fitting. What that means is that it molds onto your body in comfort; that it reveals your femininity without showing everything. One shouldn’t have to squeeze into their clothes. It’s too tight when a part of your body looks like it’s trying to escape for air. It’s too tight when one can count all the rolls on your body and the lines of your delicates are shouting its existence to the world.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s nice being a little spicy but there’s a time and a place. Yeah, you may have the guys checking you out but it’s not “you”, it’s about sex and nothing but the sex. No respect, no commitment, no relationship, nothing but the sex. That decent man you’re looking for, if he’s about anything, isn’t going to settle for a female who doesn’t know how to carry herself well. Oh yeah, that really irks me, stop looking, stop trying "to find", he'll find you. That man isn’t going to settle for a female who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation and I don’t mean gossip. Snookie, from “The Jersey Shore” may be quite intelligent but what she chose to share with the rest of us made me pity her. Unfortunately there are men who want their women to be bimbos and many play into that stereotype.
Older women should know better. They are supposed to be examples of class for younger women, not following the dressing fashion of younger women. GOD has already blessed you with natural sexiness; one shouldn’t need to dress like a hooker to show that you’re sexy. Being female is sexy in itself. Sexiness is in the way a woman walks, in the way that she carries herself; the way she uses the brain GOD blessed her with and the way she lifts up those around her.
This may sound old fashioned but back in the day, only women with loose morals dressed the way many are dressing today. Don’t believe the hype shown on TV, music videos, etc.; those females make their money dressing that way, no innuendos here. They live in a world some dream of but it’s not reality. I found out a few years ago why Muslim women cover themselves. They are seen as treasures that only their husbands should see them in their feminine glory. Eva Longoria said, “I love being a woman. I love the sexiness we get to exude. But the best thing about being a woman is the power we have over men.”[1] Although the adage states, “don’t judge a book by its cover”, in today’s society you are judged by your appearances. When one doesn’t leave anything to the imagination, what’s left? Here’s looking at you!!
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What's interesting to me is how the two major political parties view women. It was the Democrats which had the first woman, Geraldine Ferraro, representing a major political party to fill the vice presidential seat and this wasn’t a move of desperation. During the 2008 presidential campaign, John McCain selected a female, not from serious thought and deliberations but one of desperation in hopes of picking up Hillary Clinton’s leftover women’s support and vote. Bad enough being desperate but he picked a woman, who although is a brunette, was essentially and mentally a blond. All you blonds out there, please don’t be offended, we all know of the dumb blond jokes but some of you are smarter than a fifth grader, unfortunately she wasn’t nor has that changed. The two leading Democrats to challenge the GOP’s stance on womanhood were Bill Clinton and now President Obama and there are two reasons for this. The first is the fact that both of these men were raised by hard-working single mothers and they saw how much these women sacrificed to make sure their sons achieved their dreams. Because of and through these experiences, they could more easily understand the needs of single mothers and the strength of women. The second reasons ties in with the first as they have realized the strength of women and not see them as “damsels in distress” who needs to be rescued or them having to stay in the kitchen. President Obama signed the “Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act” on
The Republicans like their dog and pony show because it allows them to still feel like men as they allow minorities and women to participate within their party, it’s just to get more dogs and ponies. Not to digress but in watching The Ed Show the other night on MSNBC, I learned that around 40 something African-Americans within the GOP were running for political positions, emboldened by the election of President Obama, unfortunately for them, they're not him. I don’t know if they are indeed supported by the RNC but if they are, it is only to say to African-Americans, "see we have people like you in our party" but it’s not from sincerity, it’s for political gain just as allowing women into their party is for political gain. Republican males are first and foremost or so they want to think, the master of their domain but the mindset is minorities and women knowing their place. Mrs. Ledbetter worked for Goodyear Tire and Rubber Company for two (2) decades during which times there have been Republican Administrations who were well aware of the Supreme Court’s ruling against her. Did any of them take any action? That would be a resounding “NO”. Republicans are threatened by strong political women who are usually Democrats. Just look at their response to Hillary Clinton during her husband’s administration, their comments on Teresa Heinz-Kerry during her husband’s run for the presidential seat or their reaction to Michelle Obama during the presidential campaign. In deference, John McCain’s wife played her part, as so many good Republican wives do. I, by no means, want to demean GOP wives but until they step out of their Stepford wives roles, they can’t expect to get the respect they so rightly deserve.
I watched “The Ed Show” this morning on MSNBC and he was interviewing the former governor of
Rush stated, “I hope he fails.” Karl Rove, of all people, stated, “I’ve always said that I think he’s (President Obama) sort of an arrogant guy (who says) things that are simply not true.” Okay, this is from a guy who aided and abetted in the invasion of
Yes, debate is a healthy thing but this isn’t about civilized, responsible debate, this is about, for less of a better description, a pack of rabid wild dogs foaming at the mouth.
Edmund Burke stated, “The concessions of the weak are the concessions of fear” and well does Bertrand Russell describe the mentality of these postulate of pus and their mindless followers when he stated, “Collective fear stimulates herd instinct and tends to produce ferocity towards those who are not regarded as members of the herd.”